{"id":1947,"date":"2024-06-17T14:58:26","date_gmt":"2024-06-17T11:58:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/?p=1947"},"modified":"2024-06-13T15:15:36","modified_gmt":"2024-06-13T12:15:36","slug":"flortum-bulusma-sonrasi-neden-soguk-davraniyor-olabilir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/flortum-bulusma-sonrasi-neden-soguk-davraniyor-olabilir\/","title":{"rendered":"Fl\u00f6rt\u00fcm Bulu\u015fma Sonras\u0131 Neden So\u011fuk Davran\u0131yor Olabilir?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fl\u00f6rt\u00fcn\u00fcz ile ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirdi\u011finiz ilk bulu\u015fma sonras\u0131nda araya bir so\u011fukluk girmesi ve i\u015flerin eskiden daha yava\u015f bir \u015fekilde ilerlemesi herkes i\u00e7in can s\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 bir durumdur. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bulu\u015fma an\u0131na kadar her \u015feyin yolunda gitti\u011fi durumlarda, bulu\u015fma sonras\u0131 araya so\u011fukluk girmesi, genellikle bir \u015feylerin ters gitti\u011fi anlam\u0131na gelir. Burada &#8220;<strong>fl\u00f6rt\u00fcm bulu\u015fma sonras\u0131 neden so\u011fuk davran\u0131yor olabilir?<\/strong>&#8221; diye soruyorsan\u0131z, bu soruya birka\u00e7 farkl\u0131 yan\u0131t verilebilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_69_1 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">\u0130\u00e7indekiler<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/flortum-bulusma-sonrasi-neden-soguk-davraniyor-olabilir\/#Bulusma_Sonrasi_Flortun_Soguk_Davranmasinin_Nedenleri\" title=\"Bulu\u015fma Sonras\u0131 Fl\u00f6rt\u00fcn So\u011fuk Davranmas\u0131n\u0131n Nedenleri\">Bulu\u015fma Sonras\u0131 Fl\u00f6rt\u00fcn So\u011fuk Davranmas\u0131n\u0131n Nedenleri<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/flortum-bulusma-sonrasi-neden-soguk-davraniyor-olabilir\/#Flortun_Size_Soguk_Davranmasi_Durumunda_Ne_Yapabilirsiniz\" title=\"Fl\u00f6rt\u00fcn Size So\u011fuk Davranmas\u0131 Durumunda Ne Yapabilirsiniz?\">Fl\u00f6rt\u00fcn Size So\u011fuk Davranmas\u0131 Durumunda Ne Yapabilirsiniz?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/flortum-bulusma-sonrasi-neden-soguk-davraniyor-olabilir\/#Sorunu_Cozmek_Icin_Destek_Alin\" title=\"Sorunu \u00c7\u00f6zmek \u0130\u00e7in Destek Al\u0131n!\">Sorunu \u00c7\u00f6zmek \u0130\u00e7in Destek Al\u0131n!<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/flortum-bulusma-sonrasi-neden-soguk-davraniyor-olabilir\/#Iliski_Sorunlarini_Cozmek_Icin_Nereden_Destek_Alabilirsiniz\" title=\"\u0130li\u015fki Sorunlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00c7\u00f6zmek \u0130\u00e7in Nereden Destek Alabilirsiniz?\">\u0130li\u015fki Sorunlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00c7\u00f6zmek \u0130\u00e7in Nereden Destek Alabilirsiniz?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Bulusma_Sonrasi_Flortun_Soguk_Davranmasinin_Nedenleri\"><\/span>Bulu\u015fma Sonras\u0131 Fl\u00f6rt\u00fcn So\u011fuk Davranmas\u0131n\u0131n Nedenleri<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu durumun en temel nedeni, genellikle beklentileri kar\u015f\u0131lam\u0131yor olman\u0131zd\u0131r. Beklentiler konusunda ya\u015fayan uyumsuzluklar kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki insan\u0131n size so\u011fuk davranmas\u0131na neden olabilir. Benzer \u015fekilde ki\u015filerin i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fu duygusal sorunlar ya da psikolojik problemler de onu sizden uzakla\u015ft\u0131rm\u0131\u015f olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>T\u00fcm bunlara ek olarak \u015fu gibi durumlarda fl\u00f6rt\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fcn size so\u011fuk davranmas\u0131na neden olabilir:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Bulu\u015fma s\u0131ras\u0131nda ya\u015fanan ileti\u015fim sorunlar\u0131 ya da yanl\u0131\u015f anlamalara neden olmu\u015f olabilecek s\u00f6ylemler,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki insan\u0131n kendisini strese sokan i\u015f ya da okul gibi konulara odaklanmak istiyor olmas\u0131,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ayn\u0131 anda g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fclen bir ba\u015fka ki\u015finin daha bask\u0131n bir karakter olmas\u0131,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki insan\u0131n sizinle istedi\u011fi gibi bir ba\u011f kuramam\u0131\u015f olmas\u0131 ya da kimyan\u0131n uyu\u015fmuyor olmas\u0131,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Duygusal olarak kendisini haz\u0131r hissetmiyor olmas\u0131na ba\u011fl\u0131 olarak kendisini geri \u00e7ekmek istemesi.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fl\u00f6rt\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fcn bulu\u015fma sonras\u0131 size so\u011fuk davran\u0131yor olmas\u0131n\u0131n nedeni genellikle bunlardan biri ya da birka\u00e7 tanesidir. E\u011fer bu durum sizin de psikolojilinizi olumsuz etkiliyorsa ya da kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 olarak bir \u015feyleri \u00e7\u00f6zmek i\u00e7in hamle yapmak istiyorsan\u0131z, bir <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/iliski-uzmani\">ili\u015fki uzman\u0131<\/a><\/strong> size yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img data-dominant-color=\"8c908e\" data-has-transparency=\"false\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 674px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 674\/374;--dominant-color: #8c908e;\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"674\" height=\"374\"  data-src=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/flortum-bulusma-sonrasi-neden-soguk-davraniyor-jpg.webp\" alt=\"Fl\u00f6rt\u00fcm Bulu\u015fma Sonras\u0131 Neden So\u011fuk Davran\u0131yor Olabilir?\" class=\"wp-image-1971 not-transparent lazyload\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/flortum-bulusma-sonrasi-neden-soguk-davraniyor-jpg.webp 674w, https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/flortum-bulusma-sonrasi-neden-soguk-davraniyor-300x166.webp 300w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 650px) 100vw, 650px\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" \/><noscript><img data-dominant-color=\"8c908e\" data-has-transparency=\"false\" style=\"--dominant-color: #8c908e;\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"674\" height=\"374\"  src=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/flortum-bulusma-sonrasi-neden-soguk-davraniyor-jpg.webp\" alt=\"Fl\u00f6rt\u00fcm Bulu\u015fma Sonras\u0131 Neden So\u011fuk Davran\u0131yor Olabilir?\" class=\"wp-image-1971 not-transparent\" srcset=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/flortum-bulusma-sonrasi-neden-soguk-davraniyor-jpg.webp 674w, https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/flortum-bulusma-sonrasi-neden-soguk-davraniyor-300x166.webp 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 650px) 100vw, 650px\" \/><\/noscript><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Fl\u00f6rt\u00fcm Bulu\u015fma Sonras\u0131 Neden So\u011fuk Davran\u0131yor Olabilir?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Flortun_Size_Soguk_Davranmasi_Durumunda_Ne_Yapabilirsiniz\"><\/span>Fl\u00f6rt\u00fcn Size So\u011fuk Davranmas\u0131 Durumunda Ne Yapabilirsiniz?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u00f6yle bir durumda yapabilece\u011fin en do\u011fru hamle a\u00e7\u0131k ve d\u00fcr\u00fcst bir \u015fekilde onunla konu\u015fmakt\u0131r. Sorunun kayna\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ona sorabilir ve iki medeni insan gibi konu\u015farak bu durumun \u00fcstesinden gelebilirsiniz. Ya da fl\u00f6rt\u00fcn\u00fcz beklentiler konusunda karars\u0131zsa, konu\u015farak aran\u0131zdaki ili\u015fkiyi sonland\u0131rmay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Ayr\u0131ca \u015funlar\u0131 da deneyebilirsiniz:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Onunla empati kurmay\u0131 deneyin,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00c7ok fazla \u00fczerine gitmeyin, sab\u0131rl\u0131 olun ve kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki insana biraz zaman verin,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kendi davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irerek yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z hatalar\u0131 d\u00fczeltmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Onun ho\u015flanabilece\u011fi etkinlikler planlay\u0131n,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Onun size kar\u015f\u0131 tak\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131 tavr\u0131 ve konu\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131 de\u011ferlendirerek sorunu anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u00fcm bunlar kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki insan\u0131n neden so\u011fuk davrand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlaman\u0131za ve aran\u0131zdaki sorunu \u00e7\u00f6zerek yeniden s\u0131cak bir ili\u015fki geli\u015ftirmenize yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Sorunu_Cozmek_Icin_Destek_Alin\"><\/span>Sorunu \u00c7\u00f6zmek \u0130\u00e7in Destek Al\u0131n!<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu tarz sorunlar\u0131n \u00fcstesinden tek ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131za gelmek bazen sizi zorlayabilir. Fakat bu alanda tecr\u00fcbeli olan ya da e\u011fitim alm\u0131\u015f ki\u015filer sorunu \u00e7\u00f6zmeniz i\u00e7in size destek sa\u011flayabilir. Bu destek hem aran\u0131zdaki sorunlar\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zmenize de hem de ili\u015fkinin y\u00fcr\u00fcmedi\u011fi durumlarda, ayr\u0131l\u0131k sonras\u0131 kendinizi toparlaman\u0131za destek olur. B\u00f6ylelikle siz de hayattan kopmam\u0131\u015f olursunuz ve hem g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayat\u0131n\u0131za hem de okul ya da i\u015f hayat\u0131n\u0131za sorunsuz bir \u015fekilde devam edebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Iliski_Sorunlarini_Cozmek_Icin_Nereden_Destek_Alabilirsiniz\"><\/span>\u0130li\u015fki Sorunlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00c7\u00f6zmek \u0130\u00e7in Nereden Destek Alabilirsiniz?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6zellikle pandemi sonras\u0131, ya\u015fan\u0131lan sorunlar\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zmek i\u00e7in online terapiler ya da dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k hizmetleri yay\u0131lmaya ba\u015flad\u0131. Bu durum hem dan\u0131\u015fanlar hem de dan\u0131\u015fmanlar i\u00e7in \u00e7e\u015fitli avantajlar sunuyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nitekim bug\u00fcn bu durum hala varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcyor. Son y\u0131llar\u0131n pop\u00fcler mobil uygulamalar\u0131ndan olan <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/\">terapikoltugu.app<\/a><\/strong> ki\u015filerin fl\u00f6rtleri ile ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 sorunlar\u0131 anlamland\u0131rmak ve \u00e7\u00f6zmek konusunda son derece ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E\u011fer siz de fl\u00f6rt\u00fcn\u00fcz ile aran\u0131zda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z sorunlar\u0131 konu\u015fmak, bunlar\u0131 anlamland\u0131rmak ve profesyonel destek ile bir \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcme kavu\u015fturmak isterseniz, hemen \u015fimdi uygulamay\u0131 indirerek bunu ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fl\u00f6rt\u00fcn\u00fcz ile ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirdi\u011finiz ilk bulu\u015fma sonras\u0131nda araya bir so\u011fukluk girmesi ve i\u015flerin eskiden daha yava\u015f bir \u015fekilde ilerlemesi herkes i\u00e7in can s\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 bir durumdur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bulu\u015fma an\u0131na kadar her \u015feyin yolunda gitti\u011fi durumlarda, bulu\u015fma sonras\u0131 araya so\u011fukluk girmesi, genellikle bir \u015feylerin ters gitti\u011fi anlam\u0131na gelir. Burada &#8220;fl\u00f6rt\u00fcm bulu\u015fma sonras\u0131 neden so\u011fuk davran\u0131yor olabilir?&#8221; diye soruyorsan\u0131z, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":1972,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[86,1460,1461],"class_list":["post-1947","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-flort","tag-flortum-bulusma-sonrasi-neden-soguk-davraniyor","tag-flortum-bulusma-sonrasi-neden-soguk-davraniyor-olabilir"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1947","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1947"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1947\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1972"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1947"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1947"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1947"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}