{"id":1319,"date":"2024-04-09T14:03:08","date_gmt":"2024-04-09T11:03:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/?p=1319"},"modified":"2024-04-04T14:40:23","modified_gmt":"2024-04-04T11:40:23","slug":"esim-bana-el-kaldirdi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/esim-bana-el-kaldirdi\/","title":{"rendered":"E\u015fim Bana El Kald\u0131rd\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Evliliklerde ya\u015fanan en b\u00fcy\u00fck problemlerden birisi <strong>e\u015fim bana el kald\u0131rd\u0131 <\/strong>problemidir. Ya\u015fanan anla\u015fmazl\u0131klar ve tart\u0131\u015fmalar ne yaz\u0131k ki b\u00f6yle sonu\u00e7lanabilir. E\u015finin el kald\u0131rmas\u0131yla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fan bir kad\u0131n ne yapmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini bilemez. E\u015fin el kald\u0131rmas\u0131 durumunda hissedilenler ve verilecek tepkilere dair i\u00e7erikler;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_69_1 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">\u0130\u00e7indekiler<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/esim-bana-el-kaldirdi\/#Esim_Bana_Vurmaya_Kalkti\" title=\"E\u015fim Bana Vurmaya Kalkt\u0131\">E\u015fim Bana Vurmaya Kalkt\u0131<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/esim-bana-el-kaldirdi\/#Esim_Bana_Elini_Kaldirdi_Onu_Terk_Etmeli_Miyim\" title=\"E\u015fim Bana Elini Kald\u0131rd\u0131 Onu Terk Etmeli Miyim?\">E\u015fim Bana Elini Kald\u0131rd\u0131 Onu Terk Etmeli Miyim?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/esim-bana-el-kaldirdi\/#Esim_Bana_Vurdu\" title=\"E\u015fim Bana Vurdu\">E\u015fim Bana Vurdu<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/esim-bana-el-kaldirdi\/#Esim_El_Kaldirdigi_Icin_Ozur_Diledi\" title=\"E\u015fim El Kald\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u0130\u00e7in \u00d6z\u00fcr Diledi\">E\u015fim El Kald\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u0130\u00e7in \u00d6z\u00fcr Diledi<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/esim-bana-el-kaldirdi\/#Esine_El_Kaldiran_Koca_Duzelir_Mi\" title=\"E\u015fine El Kald\u0131ran Koca D\u00fczelir Mi?\">E\u015fine El Kald\u0131ran Koca D\u00fczelir Mi?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Esim_Bana_Vurmaya_Kalkti\"><\/span>E\u015fim Bana Vurmaya Kalkt\u0131<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u015eiddet evlilikler aras\u0131nda ya\u015fanan en b\u00fcy\u00fck sorunlardan birisidir. Bu nedenle e\u015fim bana vurmaya kalkt\u0131 diyorsan\u0131z evlili\u011finizi veya e\u015finize olan hislerinizi g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irmelisiniz. E\u015finiz size el kald\u0131rd\u0131 ancak vurmadan pi\u015fman olduysa iki t\u00fcrl\u00fc tepki verebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bunlardan birisi eylemi yok saymak ve evlili\u011fe devam etmektir. \u0130kinci tepki ise \u015fiddet g\u00f6rme durumu kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda alaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z kararlar\u0131 ona anlatmakt\u0131r. Ayr\u0131ca el kald\u0131rma durumu sizi \u00fcz\u00fcp k\u0131rd\u0131ysa e\u015finizin kendisini affettirmek i\u00e7in \u00e7aba harcamas\u0131n\u0131 ve yapmaya kalkt\u0131\u011f\u0131 eylemden ger\u00e7ekten pi\u015fman oldu\u011funu g\u00f6rmelisiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Esim_Bana_Elini_Kaldirdi_Onu_Terk_Etmeli_Miyim\"><\/span>E\u015fim Bana Elini Kald\u0131rd\u0131 Onu Terk Etmeli Miyim?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z tart\u0131\u015fma veya k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir sorun nedeniyle e\u015finiz size elini kald\u0131rm\u0131\u015f olabilir. Bu davran\u0131\u015fa kar\u015f\u0131 verebilece\u011finiz tepkilerden birisi terk etmektir. Ancak e\u015finizi terk etmeden \u00f6nce yol ayr\u0131m\u0131nda neler ya\u015fayabileceklerinizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E\u015finizden ger\u00e7ekten ayr\u0131lmak isteyip istemedi\u011finizi, \u00e7ocu\u011funuz varsa onun ayr\u0131l\u0131ktan nas\u0131l etkilenece\u011fini, ayr\u0131lman\u0131z durumunda nereye gidece\u011finizi veya ne yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 detayl\u0131 \u015fekilde d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeniz sonucunda e\u015finizi terk etmeyi ger\u00e7ekten istiyorsan\u0131z harekete ge\u00e7in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E\u015finiz size el kald\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda olay\u0131n tekrarlanmas\u0131 durumunda evlili\u011fi bitirece\u011finizi veya terk edece\u011finizi s\u00f6yleyebilirsiniz. B\u00f6ylelikle ili\u015fkiniz devam eder. Ancak bu karar sonras\u0131nda benzer eylem ger\u00e7ekle\u015fti\u011finde s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc yerine getirmelisiniz. S\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc yerine getirip terk etmezseniz bu tehdidiniz i\u015fe yaramaz ve e\u015finiz taraf\u0131ndan benzer tav\u0131rlar\u0131 g\u00f6rmeye devam edersiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Esim_Bana_Vurdu\"><\/span>E\u015fim Bana Vurdu<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>E\u015finiz tart\u0131\u015fma esnas\u0131nda size vurduysa ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z olaya kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k ciddi tav\u0131rlar alman\u0131z sizin i\u00e7in faydal\u0131 olur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u015fiddet bir kere ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131nda devam etmesi m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u015eiddetle kar\u015f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131ya kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda izlemeniz gereken yollardan baz\u0131lar\u0131 \u015funlard\u0131r;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Evi terk etmek<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Bo\u015fanma karar\u0131 almak<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u015eiddete kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k vermek<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Polise \u015fikayet etmek<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/iliski-uzmani\">\u0130li\u015fki uzman\u0131<\/a><\/strong> bulmak ve g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmek<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u015eiddeti kan\u0131tlamak<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Avukat tutarak bo\u015fanma davas\u0131 a\u00e7mak<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ailenize \u015fikayet etmek<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu da hem evlilik i\u00e7erisinde b\u00fcy\u00fck sorunlar\u0131n ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131na hem de \u015fiddet kaynakl\u0131 hayat tehlikenizin olu\u015fmas\u0131na neden olur. Bu nedenle \u015fiddet g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fczde korkup \u00e7ekinmeden radikal kararlar alman\u0131z sizin yarar\u0131n\u0131za olur. Ancak k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede e\u015finizi affedecekseniz bu kararlar\u0131 almak i\u00e7in zaman ge\u00e7mesini sa\u011flamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-dominant-color=\"683d46\" data-has-transparency=\"false\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 1024px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 1024\/683;--dominant-color: #683d46;\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\"  data-src=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/esim-bana-el-kaldirdi-1024x683.webp\" alt=\"E\u015fim Bana El Kald\u0131rd\u0131\" class=\"wp-image-1353 not-transparent lazyload\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/esim-bana-el-kaldirdi-1024x683.webp 1024w, https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/esim-bana-el-kaldirdi-300x200.webp 300w, https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/esim-bana-el-kaldirdi-768x512.webp 768w, https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/esim-bana-el-kaldirdi-jpg.webp 1200w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 650px) 100vw, 650px\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" \/><noscript><img data-dominant-color=\"683d46\" data-has-transparency=\"false\" style=\"--dominant-color: #683d46;\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\"  src=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/esim-bana-el-kaldirdi-1024x683.webp\" alt=\"E\u015fim Bana El Kald\u0131rd\u0131\" class=\"wp-image-1353 not-transparent\" srcset=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/esim-bana-el-kaldirdi-1024x683.webp 1024w, https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/esim-bana-el-kaldirdi-300x200.webp 300w, https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/esim-bana-el-kaldirdi-768x512.webp 768w, https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/esim-bana-el-kaldirdi-jpg.webp 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 650px) 100vw, 650px\" \/><\/noscript><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">E\u015fim Bana El Kald\u0131rd\u0131<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Esim_El_Kaldirdigi_Icin_Ozur_Diledi\"><\/span>E\u015fim El Kald\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u0130\u00e7in \u00d6z\u00fcr Diledi<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Evlilik ya\u015fam\u0131 boyunca ilk defa e\u015fine el kald\u0131ran kocan\u0131n eylemden pi\u015fmanl\u0131k duymas\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. Bu durumda kendini k\u00f6t\u00fc hisseden kocan\u0131n e\u015fine kendisini affettirmek i\u00e7in \u00e7aba harcamas\u0131 gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>El kald\u0131rma sonras\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcr dilemek i\u00e7in e\u015flerin k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck hediye almalar\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. B\u00f6ylelikle o k\u00f6t\u00fc tecr\u00fcbenin unutulmas\u0131 sa\u011flanmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131l\u0131r. Bunun d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda ger\u00e7ekten pi\u015fman oldu\u011funu hissettirerek \u00f6z\u00fcr dilemesi kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131n ona daha anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 yakla\u015fmas\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Esine_El_Kaldiran_Koca_Duzelir_Mi\"><\/span>E\u015fine El Kald\u0131ran Koca D\u00fczelir Mi?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>E\u015fin kar\u0131s\u0131na el kald\u0131rmas\u0131 olay\u0131 ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131nda iki taraf\u0131n birlikte olaydan etkilenmesi ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmazd\u0131r. \u015eiddetle kar\u015f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131ya kalan ancak son anda bunu ya\u015famayan kad\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fck bir k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131k duyar. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc eylemin sonu \u015fiddettir ve bu ger\u00e7ek e\u015fe ya da evlili\u011fe kar\u015f\u0131 olan pek \u00e7ok duyguyu bitirir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>El kald\u0131ran e\u015f taraf\u0131ndan ise pi\u015fmanl\u0131k olarak ortaya \u00e7\u0131kabilir. Bir anl\u0131k sinir veya k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131k nedeniyle ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan eylem e\u015f kadar eylemi ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftireni de \u00fczer. Bu nedenle taraflar\u0131n ili\u015fkilerinin seyri i\u00e7in destek almalar\u0131 ve <a href=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/esim-bana-karsi-cok-saygisiz\/\">\u015fiddet <\/a>olas\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla ba\u015f etmeleri gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/\">terapikoltugu.app<\/a><\/strong> ili\u015fkide \u015fiddet konusunda uzman deste\u011fini g\u00f6rebilece\u011finiz bir adrestir. Mobil uygulamay\u0131 cihaz\u0131n\u0131za y\u00fckleyerek seanslara kat\u0131labilir ve \u015fiddet sorununuzu \u00e7\u00f6zmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilirsiniz. Ayr\u0131ca e\u015finizin bu tavr\u0131n\u0131n alt metninde neler oldu\u011funu uzman y\u00f6nlendirmeleriyle kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 konu\u015farak anlayabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Evliliklerde ya\u015fanan en b\u00fcy\u00fck problemlerden birisi e\u015fim bana el kald\u0131rd\u0131 problemidir. Ya\u015fanan anla\u015fmazl\u0131klar ve tart\u0131\u015fmalar ne yaz\u0131k ki b\u00f6yle sonu\u00e7lanabilir. E\u015finin el kald\u0131rmas\u0131yla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fan bir kad\u0131n ne yapmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini bilemez. E\u015fin el kald\u0131rmas\u0131 durumunda hissedilenler ve verilecek tepkilere dair i\u00e7erikler; E\u015fim Bana Vurmaya Kalkt\u0131 \u015eiddet evlilikler aras\u0131nda ya\u015fanan en b\u00fcy\u00fck sorunlardan birisidir. 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