{"id":1262,"date":"2024-03-27T12:28:16","date_gmt":"2024-03-27T09:28:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/?p=1262"},"modified":"2024-03-27T12:36:36","modified_gmt":"2024-03-27T09:36:36","slug":"esim-bana-kotu-davraniyor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/esim-bana-kotu-davraniyor\/","title":{"rendered":"E\u015fim Bana K\u00f6t\u00fc Davran\u0131yor"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evli kad\u0131nlar <strong>e\u015fim bana k\u00f6t\u00fc davran\u0131yor<\/strong> ne yapmal\u0131y\u0131m sorular\u0131n\u0131 s\u0131k\u00e7a soruyor. K\u00f6t\u00fc davran\u0131\u015flar kad\u0131n\u0131 olumsuz etkiledi\u011fi ve evlili\u011fe zarar verdi\u011fi i\u00e7in sorun k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fckken engellenmesi gerekiyor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bunun i\u00e7in e\u015flerin k\u00f6t\u00fc davranmas\u0131n\u0131n nedenleri ve bunu engellemek i\u00e7in neler yap\u0131labilece\u011fine bakmak gerekir. Haz\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7erikte bu konular\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klayaca\u011f\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_69_1 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">\u0130\u00e7indekiler<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/esim-bana-kotu-davraniyor\/#Esim_Bana_Cok_Kotu_Davraniyor\" title=\"E\u015fim Bana \u00c7ok K\u00f6t\u00fc Davran\u0131yor\">E\u015fim Bana \u00c7ok K\u00f6t\u00fc Davran\u0131yor<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/esim-bana-kotu-davraniyor\/#Hakaret_Etme\" title=\"Hakaret Etme\">Hakaret Etme<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/esim-bana-kotu-davraniyor\/#Kisitlama\" title=\"K\u0131s\u0131tlama\">K\u0131s\u0131tlama<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/esim-bana-kotu-davraniyor\/#Asagilama\" title=\"A\u015fa\u011f\u0131lama\">A\u015fa\u011f\u0131lama<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/esim-bana-kotu-davraniyor\/#El_Kaldirma\" title=\"El Kald\u0131rma\">El Kald\u0131rma<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/esim-bana-kotu-davraniyor\/#Esim_Bana_Kotu_Davranmasini_Engelleyebilir_Miyim\" title=\"E\u015fim Bana K\u00f6t\u00fc Davranmas\u0131n\u0131 Engelleyebilir Miyim?\">E\u015fim Bana K\u00f6t\u00fc Davranmas\u0131n\u0131 Engelleyebilir Miyim?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Esim_Bana_Cok_Kotu_Davraniyor\"><\/span>E\u015fim Bana \u00c7ok K\u00f6t\u00fc Davran\u0131yor<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evlilikler <a href=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/esimi-nasil-mutlu-ederim\/\">mutlu olma<\/a> hayaliyle kuruluyor. Ancak zaman ilerledik\u00e7e veya d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn bittikten hemen sonra sorunlar ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmaya ba\u015fl\u0131yor. Bu sorunlar\u0131n aras\u0131nda ise e\u015flerin k\u00f6t\u00fc davranmalar\u0131 \u00f6nemli yer tutuyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>E\u015fin k\u00f6t\u00fc davranmas\u0131 \u015fu \u015fekilde g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcyor;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Hakaret etme<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>El kald\u0131rma<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>A\u015fa\u011f\u0131lama<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>K\u0131s\u0131tlama<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u0130lgisizlik<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Sadakatsizlik<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu k\u00f6t\u00fc davran\u0131\u015flarla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fan ki\u015filer ilk olarak sorunu kendinde ar\u0131yor. Kendinde sorun bulamad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ise e\u015finin bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n alt\u0131nda yatan\u0131 merak ediyor ve \u00f6\u011frenmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor. Ancak etkili bir ileti\u015fim kurulmad\u0131k\u00e7a sorunun sebebinin anla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 veya \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmesi m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmuyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Hakaret_Etme\"><\/span>Hakaret Etme<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hakaret etme e\u015flerin sergiledikleri k\u00f6t\u00fc davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda geliyor. K\u00fcf\u00fcr, ki\u015fili\u011fe, d\u0131\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015fe veya yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u015fe hakaret durumlar\u0131 yayg\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcyor. Ayr\u0131ca e\u015fler bu hakareti kamufle etmek i\u00e7in baz\u0131 y\u00f6ntemlere de ba\u015fvuruyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu y\u00f6ntemler aras\u0131nda \u015faka yapma, i\u011fneleme, yarg\u0131lama veya alayl\u0131 konu\u015fmalar bulunuyor. B\u00f6ylelikle e\u015fin hakareti anlamamas\u0131 sa\u011flanmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131l\u0131yor. E\u015f taraf\u0131ndan yap\u0131lan bir hakaret i\u015fitildi\u011finde haks\u0131z oldu\u011fu veya bu hakaretten rahats\u0131z olundu\u011funun s\u00f6ylenmesi gerekiyor. Aksi durumda hakaretin dozunun artmas\u0131 ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz oluyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-dominant-color=\"6c6657\" data-has-transparency=\"false\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 1024px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 1024\/683;--dominant-color: #6c6657;\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\"  data-src=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/esim-kotu-davraniyor-1024x683.webp\" alt=\"E\u015fim Bana K\u00f6t\u00fc Davran\u0131yor\" class=\"wp-image-1264 not-transparent lazyload\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/esim-kotu-davraniyor-1024x683.webp 1024w, https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/esim-kotu-davraniyor-300x200.webp 300w, https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/esim-kotu-davraniyor-768x512.webp 768w, https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/esim-kotu-davraniyor-jpg.webp 1200w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 650px) 100vw, 650px\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" \/><noscript><img data-dominant-color=\"6c6657\" data-has-transparency=\"false\" style=\"--dominant-color: #6c6657;\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\"  src=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/esim-kotu-davraniyor-1024x683.webp\" alt=\"E\u015fim Bana K\u00f6t\u00fc Davran\u0131yor\" class=\"wp-image-1264 not-transparent\" srcset=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/esim-kotu-davraniyor-1024x683.webp 1024w, https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/esim-kotu-davraniyor-300x200.webp 300w, https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/esim-kotu-davraniyor-768x512.webp 768w, https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/esim-kotu-davraniyor-jpg.webp 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 650px) 100vw, 650px\" \/><\/noscript><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">E\u015fim Bana K\u00f6t\u00fc Davran\u0131yor<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Kisitlama\"><\/span>K\u0131s\u0131tlama<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E\u015fin k\u00f6t\u00fc davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131ndan birisi k\u0131s\u0131tlama olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcyor. Bu k\u0131s\u0131tlama giyim, d\u0131\u015far\u0131ya \u00e7\u0131kma veya insanlarla ileti\u015fim gibi konularda ya\u015fan\u0131yor. B\u00f6ylelikle e\u015fin bir kafeste mutsuz ya\u015fam s\u00fcrmesi isteniyor. Bu davran\u0131\u015fta hakaret bulunmasa dahi kar\u015f\u0131 taraf kendini mutsuz hissetti\u011fi i\u00e7in yap\u0131lan davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n k\u00f6t\u00fc oldu\u011fu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcl\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E\u015f taraf\u0131ndan k\u0131s\u0131tlama maddi y\u00f6nden de yap\u0131labiliyor. \u00d6zellikle \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmayan e\u015flerde har\u00e7l\u0131k ve ev i\u00e7in ihtiya\u00e7 duyulan paran\u0131n verilmemesiyle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131l\u0131yor. Bu da ili\u015fkilerde b\u00fcy\u00fck sorunlar\u0131 beraberinde getiriyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Asagilama\"><\/span>A\u015fa\u011f\u0131lama<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E\u015flerin k\u00f6t\u00fc davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 aras\u0131nda a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lama bulunuyor. Mesle\u011fin k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsenmesi, fiziksel \u00f6zelliklerin k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsenmesi veya yap\u0131lan i\u015fin k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsenmesi bu a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lamalar\u0131n en \u00f6nemlilerini olu\u015fturuyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6zellikle \u00e7evrede yabanc\u0131 varken veya evde misafir a\u011f\u0131rlan\u0131rken a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lama yap\u0131labiliyor. Bu da e\u015fin kendisini yetersiz hissetmesine ve \u00fcz\u00fclmesine neden oluyor. Ancak bu durumda a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lanan e\u015fin kar\u015f\u0131 tarafa hislerini anlatmas\u0131 ve a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lamay\u0131 engelleyici davran\u0131\u015flarda bulunmas\u0131 gerekiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"El_Kaldirma\"><\/span>El Kald\u0131rma<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">El kald\u0131rma e\u015fin k\u00f6t\u00fc davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n en \u00f6nemlisi ve tehlikelisi oluyor. Evlilikte \u015fiddet ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bunun sonunun genelde k\u00f6t\u00fc bitti\u011fi g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcyor. Bu nedenle e\u015fleri el kald\u0131ran kad\u0131nlar\u0131n bunu affetmemesi ve gerekli \u00f6nlemleri almalar\u0131 gerekiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Af veya sesini \u00e7\u0131karmama durumunda \u015fiddetin dozu art\u0131yor. Ayr\u0131ca kad\u0131n cinayetlerine varan sonu\u00e7lar ya\u015fan\u0131yor. E\u015f taraf\u0131ndan el kald\u0131rma davran\u0131\u015f\u0131yla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131l\u0131yorsa kad\u0131nlar\u0131n mutlaka \u015fiddeti \u015fikayet etmeleri ve evlili\u011fi bitirmeyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeleri gerekiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u00f6ylelikle \u015fiddetin artmas\u0131 ve g\u00f6r\u00fclecek zarar\u0131n engellenmesi m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oluyor. E\u015f \u00e7ok seviliyorsa \u015fiddete kar\u015f\u0131 <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/iliski-uzmani\">ili\u015fki uzman\u0131<\/a><\/strong> ile konu\u015fmas\u0131 ya da psikolojik destek almas\u0131n\u0131n istenmesi gerekiyor. B\u00f6ylelikle terapilerle \u015fiddet e\u011filiminden kurtulmak da m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oluyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Esim_Bana_Kotu_Davranmasini_Engelleyebilir_Miyim\"><\/span>E\u015fim Bana K\u00f6t\u00fc Davranmas\u0131n\u0131 Engelleyebilir Miyim?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bireysel \u00e7abalarla e\u015fimin bana k\u00f6t\u00fc davranmas\u0131n\u0131 engelleyebilir miyim? S\u0131kl\u0131kla sorulan bir soru oluyor. Baz\u0131 durumlarda k\u00f6t\u00fc davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n engellenmesi m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oluyor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E\u015fle ileti\u015fim kurma, davran\u0131\u015flar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda duyulan rahats\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 belirtme, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n devam etmesi durumunda ayr\u0131l\u0131k talebi ve cinsel ili\u015fkiye engel gibi \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar yap\u0131labiliyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ancak bu \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n e\u015f \u00fczerinde etkili oldu\u011funu her zaman g\u00f6rmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmuyor. Bu durumda ise uzman deste\u011finin tercih edilmesi gerekiyor. Online terapi sa\u011flayan <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/terapikoltugu.app\/\">terapikoltugu.app<\/a> <\/strong>insanlara ili\u015fkiler konusunda destek veriyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E\u015fin k\u00f6t\u00fc davranmas\u0131na etkili \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmler de bu platformdan destek al\u0131narak \u00f6\u011frenilebiliyor. Davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n de\u011fi\u015fmesi ad\u0131na e\u015fin veya \u00e7iftin online terapiye kat\u0131larak k\u00f6t\u00fc davran\u0131\u015flar \u00fczerine psikolog \u00f6nerilerini \u00f6\u011frenmeleri gerekiyor.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Evli kad\u0131nlar e\u015fim bana k\u00f6t\u00fc davran\u0131yor ne yapmal\u0131y\u0131m sorular\u0131n\u0131 s\u0131k\u00e7a soruyor. K\u00f6t\u00fc davran\u0131\u015flar kad\u0131n\u0131 olumsuz etkiledi\u011fi ve evlili\u011fe zarar verdi\u011fi i\u00e7in sorun k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fckken engellenmesi gerekiyor. Bunun i\u00e7in e\u015flerin k\u00f6t\u00fc davranmas\u0131n\u0131n nedenleri ve bunu engellemek i\u00e7in neler yap\u0131labilece\u011fine bakmak gerekir. Haz\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7erikte bu konular\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klayaca\u011f\u0131z. E\u015fim Bana \u00c7ok K\u00f6t\u00fc Davran\u0131yor Evlilikler mutlu olma hayaliyle kuruluyor. 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